i'm amazed by myself sometimes, how I can juggle so many things simultaneously in my head. i'm surprised my head hasn't burst from all the thoughts and worries plaguing me.
God, help me keep my head and guard my heart in Christ.
"May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit." Romans 15:13.
overflowing with hope... that would be great.
"For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all." 2 Corinthians 4:17.
i need to be long-sighted. i need to anticipate and trust what God has in store for me.
i need to keep my head.
Sunday, June 1, 2008
Monday, May 26, 2008
it's cliche, but it's still an incredible blessing
thank God for racial harmony in Singapore!
I know this sounds cliche, but I really mean it.
on my way to my friend's birthday party today, i saw three youths decked out in Japanese goth outfits. two of them are Malays, one is a Chinese. and for some reason, I was suddenly reminded of what I read in the news about racial conflicts in other countries and how it has led to terrible tragedies.
I cannot completely understand how those people in such countries feel, but I do know that I am very blessed to live in a country where people of different races can come together and share not just physical space (such as public bus or mrt) but also common interests sometimes (such as the Japanese goth fans).
when I arrived at my friend's birthday party, I thanked God again for this blessing that I take for granted most of the time. my friend is an Indian Muslim and I managed to meet her family members at her party, who are very warm and friendly.
at the party, Indians, Chinese and Malays hanged out and had fun together. and I remember thinking to myself that it is just an incredible blessing to be in such a situation.
life may not be perfect, but it certainly has blessings which are worth being thankful for.
: )
I know this sounds cliche, but I really mean it.
on my way to my friend's birthday party today, i saw three youths decked out in Japanese goth outfits. two of them are Malays, one is a Chinese. and for some reason, I was suddenly reminded of what I read in the news about racial conflicts in other countries and how it has led to terrible tragedies.
I cannot completely understand how those people in such countries feel, but I do know that I am very blessed to live in a country where people of different races can come together and share not just physical space (such as public bus or mrt) but also common interests sometimes (such as the Japanese goth fans).
when I arrived at my friend's birthday party, I thanked God again for this blessing that I take for granted most of the time. my friend is an Indian Muslim and I managed to meet her family members at her party, who are very warm and friendly.
at the party, Indians, Chinese and Malays hanged out and had fun together. and I remember thinking to myself that it is just an incredible blessing to be in such a situation.
life may not be perfect, but it certainly has blessings which are worth being thankful for.
: )
Thursday, May 22, 2008
there is a time for everything
"There is a time for everything,
and a season for every activity under heaven:
a time to be born and a time to die,
a time to plant and a time to uproot,
a time to kill and a time to heal.
a time to tear down and a time to build,
a time to weep and a time to laugh,
a time to mourn and a time to dance,
a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
a time to embrace and a time to refrain,
a time to search and a time to give up,
a time to keep and a time to throw away,
a time to tear and a time to mend,
a time to be silent and a time to speak,
a time to love and a time to hate,
a time for war and a time for peace."
Ecclesiastes 3:1-8
I love these few verses from the Word of God. They really speak to me. Perhaps it's because I've gone through and am going through some issues in life now which force me to think deeply and clearly about what I should do.
When my grandfather passed away earlier this year, I was filled with grief, at how I never seem to give him as much thought when he was still alive as now, when he is no longer here.
Qr then encouraged me with these few verses. It was a time to weep and mourn, but the time to laugh and dance will come again.
But I don't just want to look forward to the time when I would smile again. I also want to embrace my pain and learn and grow from it.
From this particular incident, I learned how sudden and unpredictable life can be. I learned that pain can break you or strengthen you.
Similarly, now, as I have to make some important decisions, the pain can either blind me to take the easier way out or clear my vision to choose the right path.
I also learned, during this holidays, to be brutally honest with myself about where I want my life to go. That sure needs a lot of courage and a lot of faith to know that my needs would be taken care of if I choose to venture into unfamiliar territories.
Another verse I really like:
"I will lead the blind by ways they have not known, along unfamiliar paths I will guide them; I will turn darkness into light before them and make the rough places smooth. These are things I will do; I will not forsake them." - Isaiah 42: 16
For my friends who do not know God, may you also look at these verses, as I believe that you have your own issues and need encouragement to deal with them too.
Deo Gracias,
and a season for every activity under heaven:
a time to be born and a time to die,
a time to plant and a time to uproot,
a time to kill and a time to heal.
a time to tear down and a time to build,
a time to weep and a time to laugh,
a time to mourn and a time to dance,
a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
a time to embrace and a time to refrain,
a time to search and a time to give up,
a time to keep and a time to throw away,
a time to tear and a time to mend,
a time to be silent and a time to speak,
a time to love and a time to hate,
a time for war and a time for peace."
Ecclesiastes 3:1-8
I love these few verses from the Word of God. They really speak to me. Perhaps it's because I've gone through and am going through some issues in life now which force me to think deeply and clearly about what I should do.
When my grandfather passed away earlier this year, I was filled with grief, at how I never seem to give him as much thought when he was still alive as now, when he is no longer here.
Qr then encouraged me with these few verses. It was a time to weep and mourn, but the time to laugh and dance will come again.
But I don't just want to look forward to the time when I would smile again. I also want to embrace my pain and learn and grow from it.
From this particular incident, I learned how sudden and unpredictable life can be. I learned that pain can break you or strengthen you.
Similarly, now, as I have to make some important decisions, the pain can either blind me to take the easier way out or clear my vision to choose the right path.
I also learned, during this holidays, to be brutally honest with myself about where I want my life to go. That sure needs a lot of courage and a lot of faith to know that my needs would be taken care of if I choose to venture into unfamiliar territories.
Another verse I really like:
"I will lead the blind by ways they have not known, along unfamiliar paths I will guide them; I will turn darkness into light before them and make the rough places smooth. These are things I will do; I will not forsake them." - Isaiah 42: 16
For my friends who do not know God, may you also look at these verses, as I believe that you have your own issues and need encouragement to deal with them too.
Deo Gracias,
Tuesday, August 7, 2007
My first day
i feel like a freshman all over again.
nope i'm not trying to sound young. it's just that i'm pursuing a different specialization from my friends. now i understand how it feels to be lost and worried that i won't be able to find friends.
and this module is tough! not only are the readings disgustingly long and abundant, but we already have to determine the topics for our term paper by NEXT WEEK. that's gross.
still, i think this would be a useful module for me because i plan to go overseas. so it's always good to have an idea of what press systems in other countries are like.
plus, I DON'T HAVE A HALL. that sucks. big time! how true it is that you'll only cherish what is gone.
i'm thankful though, that i still have my loving bf and friends to make me look forward to coming to school.
yup i'm still anticipating what this semester will bring. i hope my friends are enjoying themselves too, and that they will do even better this semester!
nope i'm not trying to sound young. it's just that i'm pursuing a different specialization from my friends. now i understand how it feels to be lost and worried that i won't be able to find friends.
and this module is tough! not only are the readings disgustingly long and abundant, but we already have to determine the topics for our term paper by NEXT WEEK. that's gross.
still, i think this would be a useful module for me because i plan to go overseas. so it's always good to have an idea of what press systems in other countries are like.
plus, I DON'T HAVE A HALL. that sucks. big time! how true it is that you'll only cherish what is gone.
i'm thankful though, that i still have my loving bf and friends to make me look forward to coming to school.
yup i'm still anticipating what this semester will bring. i hope my friends are enjoying themselves too, and that they will do even better this semester!
Saturday, August 4, 2007
reflections
i love my holidays!
let's see...
i went to Eastern Europe for 2 weeks, visiting places like Germany, Austria, Poland and Czech Republic. the countries were so beautiful that Singapore looks so plain and boring. but i was still really thankful to be back home. there are too many people and things i love in Singapore. nothing beats home. really. (i'm in the National Day mode already)
then i went to Tioman with Js and his (female)friends' boyfriends. yup it was a weird combination and i still feel a bit out-of-place among them but i can't deny that they're really sweet and helpful people. snorkeling was so fun! the fish were so pretty and it was hilarious seeing Js trying to pose underwater for the camera. i wouldn't mind going back to places like these in the future. but this time, i wanna try diving!
what else about my hols that i love?
well there's my work. there's a lot of stress in my workplace and i even cried once because i couldn't cope with the pressure, but i have to admit that i learned a lot about dealing with stress, relating with people and managing my time. i still need to improve on these areas, but this job has really let me experience first hand what it feels like to hold yourself together in the worst scenarios.
my holidays has been a fruitful one, in which i spent a lot of quality time with Js and also managed to visit my grandparents more.
now that school is starting, i'm excited, and i really look forward to getting to know myself better and learn more useful skills in the coming semester.
and i can't wait to see my CS friends!
though the thought of having to pore over readings again does seem dreadful... haha.
okies going to sleep soon. still coughing.
hee
let's see...
i went to Eastern Europe for 2 weeks, visiting places like Germany, Austria, Poland and Czech Republic. the countries were so beautiful that Singapore looks so plain and boring. but i was still really thankful to be back home. there are too many people and things i love in Singapore. nothing beats home. really. (i'm in the National Day mode already)
then i went to Tioman with Js and his (female)friends' boyfriends. yup it was a weird combination and i still feel a bit out-of-place among them but i can't deny that they're really sweet and helpful people. snorkeling was so fun! the fish were so pretty and it was hilarious seeing Js trying to pose underwater for the camera. i wouldn't mind going back to places like these in the future. but this time, i wanna try diving!
what else about my hols that i love?
well there's my work. there's a lot of stress in my workplace and i even cried once because i couldn't cope with the pressure, but i have to admit that i learned a lot about dealing with stress, relating with people and managing my time. i still need to improve on these areas, but this job has really let me experience first hand what it feels like to hold yourself together in the worst scenarios.
my holidays has been a fruitful one, in which i spent a lot of quality time with Js and also managed to visit my grandparents more.
now that school is starting, i'm excited, and i really look forward to getting to know myself better and learn more useful skills in the coming semester.
and i can't wait to see my CS friends!
though the thought of having to pore over readings again does seem dreadful... haha.
okies going to sleep soon. still coughing.
hee
Monday, July 16, 2007
When you're gone...
i'm listening to this song by avril levighn now. it's called 'when you're gone'. i've never been a fan of hers, but this song is so apt to what has been going through my mind nowadays.
nope i'm not experiencing the pain of my loved ones leaving me. my loved ones are all healthy and still in my life. thank God.
rather it's my friend's friend who has passed away due to brain cancer and the death of a freshman's father. i met the freshman through Alpha.
i cannot imagine their pain, nor do i wish to do so. though i know it's inevitable that i'll have to deal with the deaths of some of my loved ones one way or another in the future, i'll prefer to believe that they'll always be with me.
one thing that struck me about death is the suddenness of it, like a slap on the face. i think that's the worst thing about death, other than the heartache it brings. you didn't expect it to come so soon. that's what make some deaths so cruel.
my uncle works as a doctor. and he hardly ever loses his cool at things that most people would get flustered about or flare up at. for example, he hardly ever scolds his children when they throw tantrums.
my mum says that it is because he has looked at enough sufferings and deaths of his patients and their loved ones to understand that there are things more important that are worth losing his cool over.
i wanna learn that, to focus my energy and time on things that really matter. but i also believe that it requires time, effort and help to truly achieve that state.
nope i'm not experiencing the pain of my loved ones leaving me. my loved ones are all healthy and still in my life. thank God.
rather it's my friend's friend who has passed away due to brain cancer and the death of a freshman's father. i met the freshman through Alpha.
i cannot imagine their pain, nor do i wish to do so. though i know it's inevitable that i'll have to deal with the deaths of some of my loved ones one way or another in the future, i'll prefer to believe that they'll always be with me.
one thing that struck me about death is the suddenness of it, like a slap on the face. i think that's the worst thing about death, other than the heartache it brings. you didn't expect it to come so soon. that's what make some deaths so cruel.
my uncle works as a doctor. and he hardly ever loses his cool at things that most people would get flustered about or flare up at. for example, he hardly ever scolds his children when they throw tantrums.
my mum says that it is because he has looked at enough sufferings and deaths of his patients and their loved ones to understand that there are things more important that are worth losing his cool over.
i wanna learn that, to focus my energy and time on things that really matter. but i also believe that it requires time, effort and help to truly achieve that state.
Thursday, May 17, 2007
busy bee
i'm going to get really busy soon, with ALPHA, camp, work and outings with friends who i miss and can't wait to catch up with. so this week will be the last week i can still afford to relax a little.
then it'll be off to Eastern Europe! can't wait to get out of Singapore! not that i don't like to be with the people here but i think a break away from routine life is always good for the soul and mind.
in the busy weeks to come, i really hope to learn something and grow in areas like:
- time management
- inter-personal relationships
- patience (yup i realise i flare up quite easily these days. it's making me look bad in front of my friends. haha)
i love my hols!~
then it'll be off to Eastern Europe! can't wait to get out of Singapore! not that i don't like to be with the people here but i think a break away from routine life is always good for the soul and mind.
in the busy weeks to come, i really hope to learn something and grow in areas like:
- time management
- inter-personal relationships
- patience (yup i realise i flare up quite easily these days. it's making me look bad in front of my friends. haha)
i love my hols!~
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